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Ali Gohar 50 Years, Baloch Groom

I m Muslim sunni Sindhi industrial electrical automation engineer from Karachi 50 years old seeking a widowed or divorced Muslim lady aged between 35 to 45 years for second marriage

Shehryar Aziz 26 Years, Kashmiri Groom

Shehryar is a cybersecurity analyst working remotely for a Singapore-based firm — his entire career has been self-built through certifications, GitHub contributions, and competitive hacking on platforms like HackTheBox, where he currently holds a rank in the top 500 globally. He never completed a formal CS degree (he dropped out of a Rawalpindi university in second year to pursue certifications full time) but now earns more than most of his degree-holding peers. He is aware this sounds impressive on paper and deliberately does not lead with it in conversation. He would rather be known for his dry wit, his obsessive chai-brewing rituals, and his habit of reading one book a week. He is from Mirpur AJK, visits his family monthly, and sends a fixed portion of his income home every month regardless of expenses. Privately devout, he prays, fasts, and reads Quran regularly but considers faith a personal matter and not a performance.

Babar Nawaz 34 Years, Mengal Groom

Babar is a senior advocate at the Balochistan High Court specialising in constitutional law and human rights litigation. He completed his LLB from University of Balochistan and LLM from SOAS London on a Chevening Scholarship. He returned to Quetta to practise because he believed the law was needed most where institutions were weakest. His separation two years ago was painful but ultimately mutual — he has no children from the marriage and has processed it with the same analytical honesty he brings to his courtroom arguments. He is articulate, precise in language, and has a stillness about him that comes from years of learning to remain calm under pressure. Away from the court he is surprisingly domestic — he bakes his own bread, maintains a small terrace garden of herbs and roses, and plays chess online at a rating that would embarrass most casual players. He is financially secure, politically aware without being party-affiliated, and has a deep respect for women in professional life.

Rida Qamar 35 Years, Khokhar Bride

Rida is a social entrepreneur who founded a women’s vocational training NGO in Multan six years ago it now operates three training centres, has certified over 800 women in tailoring, digital literacy and beauty therapy, and placed 60% of graduates in employment or self-employment. She was married at 24 and divorced at 28 after a relationship that was fundamentally incompatible at a values level; she has a daughter aged 6 who lives with her and is, in her words, ‘the funniest, most opinionated person she has ever met.’ Rida herself is all of those things. She holds an MBA from IBA Karachi, speaks confidently in front of government ministers and equally confidently in Saraiki with the women she trains. She is observant — hijab, five prayers, halal — and has a particular dislike of people who confuse performance of religion with its substance. She is not bitter about her divorce; she is simply clearer now about what she needs and what she will not accept.

Waqar Ahmed 36 Years, Bhatti Profile

Waqar has spent the last eleven years working in international development and humanitarian relief — first with UN-HABITAT on housing reconstruction after the 2010 floods, then with UNHCR on Afghan refugee documentation in KPK, and currently as a senior programme manager with a UK-based INGO running education access projects in southern Punjab and Sindh. He has worked in nine of Pakistan’s provinces and has a ground-level understanding of this country that most people in his income bracket simply do not have. He is one of the most well-travelled Pakistanis without ever having needed to leave the country though he has worked in Jordan and Kenya briefly. He is fluent in Urdu, Punjabi, Saraiki and working Sindhi. Despite years of exposure to the worst of human circumstance, he is not cynical, he calls it ‘maintained optimism through action.’ He lives simply, owns very little, and gives generously. He prays regularly, reads widely, and makes decisions slowly but with complete conviction.